9 Critical Lessons from "No More Nice Guy” :

Lokesh Ukey
4 min read1 day ago

Have you ever felt like you're constantly bending over backwards for others, but never getting the love and respect you deserve? You're not alone. Many men fall into the "Nice Guy" trap, a pattern of behavior that leads to frustration and loneliness.

This article dives deep into the psychology of the "Nice Guy," exploring the core beliefs that fuel this dynamic and offering practical steps to break free. Here are 9 key lessons to break the cycle and build healthy, fulfilling relationships:

Credit - Pinterest

Note- If you are not a Medium member, you can read the blog for free here

1. The Nice Guy Script: Seeking Approval, Not Love-

  • Nice Guys believe that being "good" and selfless will guarantee love and happiness. This often involves suppressing their true selves and constantly seeking external validation. Imagine a script playing in their heads, dictating how to act to be "liked" instead of truly connecting with others.

2. Missing the Male Connection: Why Nice Guys Struggle with Friendships:

  • Often, Nice Guys…

--

--

Lokesh Ukey

Here to write about Self improvement, Psychology, Self help book, and much more Love and enjoy! ✉️ lokeshukey1286@gmail.com