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Love Yourself First: Why Inner Beauty Wins Every Time:
2 min readApr 3, 2024
Ever feel like you’re constantly chasing someone else’s definition of happiness? You’re not alone. But what if the key to true fulfillment lies within you? This post is all about ditching the pressure and building a life that makes you shine. We’ll explore how to boost your self-confidence, set healthy boundaries, and embrace your unique definition of fun.
- Do not spend so much time trying to be more physically attractive in order to just impress your crush rather than making yourself mentally attractive.Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities and learn to be happy on your own. That’s attractive.
- Normalize saying "No" without needing to over-explain yourself. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that’s their problem. The best weight you’ll ever lose is the weight of other people’s opinion of you.
- Don’t subscribe to other people’s definition of "fun".Fun doesn’t have to mean drinking, partying and socialising. Fun can be a night in alone, getting lost in a book, a deep conversation, a walk, creating art, playing or doing your work. Fun is yours; You define it.
- Before you get married, discuss bills, parenting styles, credit, debt, how to deal with family, what belief will be installed in your children, childhood traumas, sexual…
